To understand the mystique of the Water Boy, simply absorb the significance of naturalist Charles Darwin, actor James Dean, publisher Helen Gurley Brown and radical Angela Davis all being born beneath this sign of our time.
Not every Aquarius is out to change the world, of course — at least not the whole world. Idealistic, creative, and above all, individualistic, he is dedicated to serving mankind on his own terms.
The mythology behind Aquarius contains strongly gay overtones the straight world rarely mentions. The Water Bearer is identified with Ganymede, a handsome youth who caught the heavenly eye; first of Eos, Goddess of the Dawn, who abducted him from a lonely sheep-field.
She, in turn, lost him to Zeus, King of the Gods, who, having an appropriately Greek interest in young Shepherds, sent an eagle to retrieve him for a houseboy. Following a great deal of drama over this affair, Zeus was forced by his furious wife to put his boy-toy away among the Constellations for all to admire.
Why should you know all this? Why, so you can use it as a conversation starter when making time with an Aquarius, of course!
Naturally, you’ll have to wait in line, because in the cookie-cutter world of speed dating, nearly everyone feels about him as the ancient Greek Gods did — like snatching that one up before he becomes a collector’s trophy.
Aquarius is ahead of his time and somewhat uppity about it. Don’t be surprised if he delivers a wild-eyed sermon on some new groundbreaking idea he had while watching Discovery last week.
How to Attract Gay Aquarius
Aquarians will be found wherever conventions are being bucked and change being promised; Pride marches will have a healthy contingent of Water Bearers leading the charge. But issues like the environment and social justice for the poor will attract just as much of his commitment.
Despite his watery name, Aquarius is ruled by the Element of Air, and the planet of Uranus.
You’ll find that his preferred mode of communication is the unstructured debate. Don’t even try to agree with him, no matter the topic; he’ll just change the subject and offer more and more deeply improbable premises, until you relent to spar with him. At that point, his response to every attempt at reason will be a pouting, “You aren’t understanding what I’m saying at all!” which you may as well concede, before he starts speaking Martian to prove his point.
Gay Aquarius Quirks & Erogenous Zones
If you have the good fortune to be seated across the table from a friendly, flirtatious Aquarius, and feel that making a move is called for, consider initiating a hidden game of tootsie with him while your friends seated beside you have no clue. This will not only stir his sense of daring, but plug you in directly to his sensitive spot, which happens to be the calves and ankles.
As things get more serious, be open to literally anything — a garden of bizarre pleasures awaits the playmate who can play along. Just agree that you are whatever strange character he insists that you are, without probing for details, and you can be a stand-in while he pretends you are a team of alien scientists performing outrageous tests, or some three-headed beast-man from a forgotten 60’s horror flick, or whatever other twisted fantasy has a hold on his strange imagination.
What to Expect on an Aquarius Date
Aquarians thrive in urban bustle, and expect to be entertained. Small theatre groups and comedy clubs are a great way to evoke the warmth beneath his cool exterior, as well as giving him a framework to compare with his life in the ensuing hours. Protagonist of his own first person story, Aquarius is apt to relate nearly any drama to a parallel (though not necessarily in any way similar) event in his own life.
He’ll usually buy coffee and dessert, but he’s rarely loaded; his eccentricities have probably kept him from climbing the corporate ladder; Nor is he particularly susceptible to conspicuous displays of wealth; in fact, he tends to resent attempts to buy his affections, and loading on the bling will surely backfire.
Inviting you back to his place is hardly a bad sign, but he might merely have tea on the porch in mind; Aquarius is most comfortable in his home, and generally prefers familiar surroundings. The Water Boy usually stakes his tipi near a comfortable river for many years.
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If you meet an Aquarius, it will probably be through a group activity. Perhaps she founded a singles club as a way to meet women and never bothered to look for a partner. When you first notice her, she seems completely disinterested and this throws you off balance — and turns you on. Does she even know you’re there? What makes her tick, anyway? Either that, or she noticed you from across the room and decided you were a riddle wrapped in an enigma, not to mention a Diane von Furstenberg dress. She had to know more, so she walked right up to you and started asking questions that were probing and personal — and probably right on the money. The encounter may have left you wanting more, but be careful: as soon as your mystery is revealed to the water bearer, she’ll pour you out and move upstream.
If you want to avoid this trap, maintain your poise and keep your distance. This may smack of dishonesty, but remember: It’s best to not get attached to the unpredictable Aquarian. All you can do is hang on to your heart and hope for the best. If you don’t mind getting stood up once in a while because she got into a long, interesting conversation with her pastor, city council member, third grade teacher or bus driver, the two of you might be a match made in heaven. Because Aquarius is an air sign, love is likely to start in the head and work its way down, so take her to a political debate or a panel of experts discussing… well, anything really.
If you don’t cramp her style, if she starts to trust you — congratulations! Your love will be the playful, intimate kind that can stay fresh for decades. But you may have a hard time connecting with your Aquarius emotionally. At least the sex will be fantastic — Aquarius is an intuitive, inventive lover, who’s smart enough to figure out what you need or pay attention to when asked. They enjoy perfecting new techniques, so take advantage and communicate your desires. Just don’t make her do the same thing night after night, or she’ll be gone before sunrise.
What to Expect on an Aquarius Date
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Many first dates are spent finding out about the other. But the Scorpio man is a fortress of secrets, guarded by eyes ready to pounce on any transgressor. It’s best to stay on the outer edges, with questions about his interests, like movies, travel and food. He may be “reading” you on an intuitive level, sussing out who you are. You’ll win points up front, if you telegraph that you respect his privacy.
If you’re one that talks when nervous — and who isn’t nervous on first dates — try your best to control it. Scorpios lose respect for someone that tells all, especially if you divulge your secrets too soon. If drinking makes you have loose lips, consider keeping your intake moderate. The Scorpio man admires someone in control of themselves, and will be turned off by sloppy drunk behavior. The judging eyes of Scorpio man can be intimidating, if you’re not confident with yourself. But if the ice breaks and he starts to warm up, you’ll be glad you hung in there.
Getting closer to Scorpio is an all-encompassing experience. It’s hard at first to know if he likes you or not. But if he’s calling and wanting to get together, that’s a sign that it’s still “on.” He’s a serious kind of guy, so going deeper with him often means there’s no turning back. He can turn nasty if he thinks he’s been treated in a casual way. But some Scorpio men can’t get over their distrust of people in general, so things may go south for reasons beyond your control.
Scorpio men do best with those that want soulful relationships, but can hold their own with a powerful mate. What’s nourishing for Scorpio is to give of themselves wholly, and experience major cycles of change together. You’ll know if your connection has caught that groove, and the trust is there to deepen the bond.
The Scorpio man has a heightened sensuality that’s often veiled behind that mask of self-control. You can hold his attention with subtle overtures that give just a tantalizing taste of what’s to come. He wants to be teased by a sexually confident person, so the pleasure is drawn out. He lives for the building of sexual tension.
You can create that atmosphere by dressing seductively with alluring extras like fragrances. Scorpios are all about timing. If you have a compatible rhythm, you’ll know when to touch Scorpio’s arm, or give the signal that you’re open to their advances. But keep it private, and that means no big shows of PDA at his workplace.
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Scorpio women are hard-to-know at first, but they also love meeting people who intrigue them. Your best shot at wooing the enigmatic Scorpio woman is to be fascinating to her love of mystery and power. She’s not going to stick around too long if you play up your insecurities. She also wants to discover who you are, not have it handed to her on a platter. She’s drawn to those with traits of determination, ambition, sexual confidence, profound spirituality and self-control.
It’s a known dating faux pas not to run down your dating history, especially if you’re tempted to present it in a “loser” light. That goes double when on a date with the Scorpio woman. The Scorpio woman may even be horrified at your spilling of sexual secrets, since it’s a sign of how you’d treat a relationship with her. She wants a discreet person who won’t betray her secrets to others. So on a first date, you might want to:
The Scorpio woman is a mesmerizer who enjoys playing with her sexual power. It’s best to avoid coming on too strong or too soon. Let there be space there for her desire to grow, and intensified with sensual looks and touches. She responds to a subtle ‘slow hand’ lover, over one that acts on impulse.
A big issue for Scorpio women is respect. They are all-or-nothing when it comes to giving themselves. So they want to know someone can handle their passion, and won’t bail if it gets intense. That’s why a slow build, where trust is the foundation, is better than taking chances of getting hurt. She responds to gestures of devotion, but not ones that are sentimental or cutesy.
A Scorpio woman can be serious, and doesn’t liked to be teased when she’s wrestling with something heavy. She responds well to someone who respects her inner needs, and that there are times to go deep. If you understand the ebb and flow, you can give her the space she needs to work it out.
Scorpio women are focused do-ers, and often have a very pragmatic view of life. They may see into the layers of a situation psychically, but they are grounded in realities. They admire people who are also determined, productive, and don’t waste their natural talents. In other words, they like people who’ve got it going on.
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A Cancer man will come across as an extremely shy person who minds his own business. He is not one who will tell everything about himself in the first meeting. In fact, it will take a large number of meetings to get even a little close to him. The Cancerian male may seem to be a different person every time you meet him. He may be nervous and fickle one moment, extremely confident the second minute, and too shy the very next. His frown can easily turn, first into smile and then into a laugh.
A Cancerian guy may get sad and melancholic at times and then you will feel like putting your arms around him and comforting him. Then, suddenly his wistfulness will vanish and he will be sparkling with wit and humor. He is a true romantic and sees fairytale dreams frequently. However, he is as close to reality as anyone can be. Baffled? Don’t worry, it’ll take some time, but you will start understanding your Cancerian man slowly and gradually. The changes in him do not mean a changing personality like Geminis.
It is just a change of moods and he will soon be his usual self again. The basic characteristics profile will, however, remain the same. Just like a crab, he retreats into a shell when his emotions are hurt. The shell is his haven and he will remain there ‘til he is ready to face the world again. Cancerian men may look harsh and distant at times, but inside they are very gentle, kind and affectionate. Rudeness is not one of their personality traits; it just acts a cover to hide their true, vulnerable feelings.
A Cancer man needs to feel secured of your love every now and then, so don’t forget to say “I love you” every day. The same goes for money, too; debt makes him uneasy. He is the one who always pays his bills on time and likes saving more than spending. He is not stingy, but he is also not extravagant; however, a Cancerian male won’t sacrifice his taste and style in the name of economy. Economy for him means getting the worth of money he spent. Quality plays the utmost importance as far as he is concerned.
A Cancer guy is very conscious of his looks, his house, his car and everything that surrounds him. His clothes need to have that perfect cut, his car the perfect shine and his food the perfect taste. He is not one of those wild men who like going against the usual norms, and sophistication is something he can’t live without. There is another thing a Cancer male cannot live without - talking about his Mommie Dearest! She is most likely to be in his every second conversation.
In the other extreme, he will be totally detached from her; however, his relationship with his mother will never be casual and moderate. It has to be either of the two extremes, and the first one is the most likely. At the same time, he will be the most important person in his mother’s life. Make sure you pamper him and give him as much attention as his mother. Chivalry is in his nature, unless you give him reasons to be otherwise. A Cancerian guy may take some time to judge you as his probable “soulmate.”
However, once he is sure, he will shower you with love, care, admiration and gifts. At the same time, you will be expected to meet his standards, which may be quite high. If he has decided you are the one he wants to live his life with, he will pursue you with fierce determination and make you fall in love with him.
As a father, he is completely proud of his son and fiercely protective of his daughter. He is also extremely patient with them. With a Cancerian man, there is one thing you and the kids will never be short of: Love!
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Have you met a Cancerian woman recently? Are you a little confused as to what she really is - chirpy, somber or distant? She is all of these and still, she is none of these. Even more confused? A Cancerian woman has mood swings every now and then and these are only a few of her mood swings; however, her basic personality traits remain the same. She is very sensitive, emotional, kind and caring. Here’s the catch! Most of her traits will be hidden behind a shell of indifference and aloofness, breaking which will require quite a lot of effort.
You will have to gently coerce a Cancerian girl to get out of her shell and come into the big bad world without it. The best time to do this is in the moonlight, when there are maximum changes of catching her in her true emotions. When in love, she will be tender, womanly, timid and modest. She dislikes criticisms, can’t stand rejection and gets deeply hurt by harsh words. Too much aggressiveness on your part may make her a little hesitant. She loves her mother, so you better learn to love as well as respect her, too.
A Cancer woman will never make the first moves in a relationship; she only knows how to move backwards or sideways. This is because of two reasons: her shyness and her fear of being rejected. This female has some secrets and she won’t like you prying around her personal diary. She is very insecure and will need your constant reassurance. It doesn’t matter if she is the current Miss Universe or has men drooling all over her, it is your attention and appreciation she is the most concerned about.
You will have to learn to live with a Cancerian woman’s mood swings, which is not so difficult since she is great in every other way. She is extremely loyal and will keep you happy with her warm and rich humor. Once she is committed to you, she will remain yours forever and ever. Adultery is not one of her traits. With a Cancerian woman, you will always have to be careful with words. She is very sentimental and can get hurt very easily. Then, she can burst into tears and you will be expected to console her and wipe them away.
A Cancer female is a great cook and makes better food than a 5-star hotel chef. She is quite careful with money as well. She isn’t stingy or totally extravagant. She has a habit of saving everything that is usable, be it money, old buttons or empty jars. She also saves things that have sentimental value attached to them, like the sweater her grandmother knitted for her 5th birthday. A Cancer female fiercely guards what is hers and that includes you, too! Although she is not too possessive or jealous. But she doesn’t enjoy sharing her love.
She doesn’t grumble about bad luck. She will get depressed and may shed a few tears alone, but she will be patient and wait for the time to change again… this time in her favor. Almost all Cancerians have the desire to be pampered like a child, especially when they feel low. Don’t forget to pay your Cancer girl extra attention when she is depressed, otherwise she may retreat deeper into her shell. And then it will be very difficult to bring her back to her normal self.
She will want to be told time and again that she is still desirable and you still need her. However, she is not weak and is completely capable of looking after herself. In fact, she is one of those people who sacrifice all that they have for their loved ones. She just needs some spoiling every few days. A Cancerian woman may be fragile as far as her feelings are concerned, but when you need her, she will be as strong as the Rock of Gibraltar. She will also be very protective of her children and make them feel completely secure.
Kids will be the center of her universe and she will pamper them with her love, affection and care. The children will also be very close to her and no matter how far they go from home, they will come back to her. A Cancer female always needs you, but she will never get too aggressive. She knows that you may leave for a while to follow your dreams, but in the end, she is the one you will come back to. Then, you will find her as charming as ever, waiting for you with freshly baked bread and hot soup. She will feed you, listen to your worries and make you smile again! Need anything more?
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The Pisces man, with his emotional sensitivity, often has big, kind eyes. He understands that life is overwhelming if you’re sensitive. He’s likely to try to be a soothing presence, which is itself a balm in an indifferent world.
The Pisces man has a subtle and complex nature that is drowned out in loud places. That’s why it’s better to suggest a mellow, “undiscovered” place to get to know him. Atmospheric places with perhaps an aquarium or waterwall appeal. Places with whimsical themes or with an Eastern flair – like a Tibetan restaurant – are up his alley.
It’s best to meet the Pisces man in a place where you can be totally present to the mystery of the other. Avoid places that are visually over stimulating or crowded. A walk by the ocean or a lake is ideal. So is sailing or a whale watching excursion. A night at the theater or cinema gives you a lot to talk about. Or try going off the beaten track in a forest for a nature walk.
The Pisces man likes to be with those who “get” him. That means women who understand he’s often pulled in many directions. He’s confused, lost, disoriented, dazed, in a fog. He wants to be with someone who won’t take advantage of his lostness and emotional sensitivity. He struggles to believe that he’s capable, and shines when he’s got someone solidly in his corner.
The Pisces man is easily manipulated, and can fall prey to playing the victim in relationships. He also may struggle more than other signs with addiction. It’s hard for him to live in reality sometimes. A healthy Pisces man is drawn to people who don’t play on his weaknesses. He thrives with a partner that helps him face life and isn’t an enabler for his addictions.
The Pisces man has an active imagination. He wants someone to share his dreams and imaginings with. He’s his best with someone that encourages him to find expression for all he holds within.
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The Pisces woman believes in the sweeter side of love. She is ultra feminine, often curvy and tends to wear veil-like clothing, layers, scarves and billowing blouses. Many Pisces women wear large hoop earrings and often change their look with hats and mutable hair style and color.
It takes time to win the heart of the Pisces woman. At first, she is all mystery, with her true nature veiled and elusive. If she looks different each time, this hints at a theatrical nature that moves easily into this or that persona. The right lover will be at ease with this chameleon-like quality, and be bewitched by it. There’s an infinite nature there to discover over time, so meeting her is the beginning of a fantastic voyage.
She can seem shy, but that is her protection from opening her sensitive heart too soon. She will slip the net of a rough or too fast pursuer. But if you have what it takes, she is a devoted, forgiving mate that never gives up on anyone.
She has a big heart for the underdog, which can lead to iffy judgment in love. Pisces is a sign of sacrifice, and she can easily fall in love with a dark character, just knowing he or she is good deep down. That is true, of course, but the Pisces woman may learn the hard way that trying to save drowning people takes her under too.
Her nature is fluid and changeable, which makes it hard to feel a definite sense of self. Show her you know her, with gifts or gestures that are unique to what’s been on her mind and heart. This lets her know that you honor her journey, as one of being in two worlds (the natural and the supernatural), each as real as the other.
Enchant her with tickets to a whimsical theatrical production, or bands she’s in to. Make plans to go to that out of the way place with the private atmosphere. She lets her guard down in cloistered, serene places with a touch of etheric ambiance.
The ocean-sized eyes of Pisces let you know this is no ordinary woman. Often they’re watery, and quick to brim with tears or twinkle with joy. She doesn’t miss anything, and picks up impressions that tell her what you’re about. A kind, sincere heart is a real draw, because then she can feel safe to consider you part of her refuge from a noisy, harsh world.
As a water sign, she’s an emotional creature, and needs more solitude than most to ride out the waves. If you love her, you’ll stand guard over her need to retreat, daydream, spend hours making art, or listening to music.
The Pisces woman is a natural artist, as someone who sees meaning in the most mundane situations. Pay attention to what fascinates her, and nourish that with thoughtful gifts, like a carefully selected mix for her iPod for different moods.
Many Pisces women are a creative cottage industry unto themselves. See how you can support whatever they’re doing, to build confidence, to share their exquisite talents with the world.
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He greets you with a 100-watt smile, and seems to always be happy. He likes jokey, playful, flirty, colorful and fun. The Sadge man wants to get to know you, but always keeps it friendly. His searing vision plunges the depths — don’t forget his sign follows Scorpio — but he tends not to linger on heavy topic. Be prepared for fast conversation shifts, as he tries to tango with your mind.
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The Archer is very physical, so on first dates, he’ll be tuning in to your body, as well as your mind. He’s built for endurance, and might suggest active dates that keep the focus on physical stamina. An unattached Sadge guy often sees sex as another area of play and exploration. Don’t be surprised if he expects the full monty on the first date. The Sadge man doesn’t mean to be a love ‘em and leave ‘em type. But if his interest wanes after you’ve done the deed, he can’t fake it. Keep that in mind when you’re considering taking the plunge into bed together.
Truth be told, Sagittarius is one of the potential “players” of the Zodiac. Quite a few have a kinky streak. Mainly, though, he’s interested in varied life experience. The saving grace is that he’s usually forthright about his desire to experience the terrain of many physical landscapes. If you’re the jealous type, or looking for “The One,” be careful here. His innocent lust for you is charming, but keep in mind he might be seeking variety in romance. If you dive in with the secret hope that he’ll commit at some point, you could be let down. In some ways, Sagittarius never really settles down, and is better suited with an equally free-wheeling partner.
He wants to be “friends” first, and it’ll always have that partner-in-adventure feel to it, if you keep it fresh.
The Sagittarius mission is to stay light on his feet, to cover a lot of ground, and that’s why he doesn’t seek heavy duty relationship entanglements. He’s focused on the outer world, so it helps if you are too. That means a steady diet of culture, parties, events, races, trips and so on.
The Archer is the seeker, and you’ll see where his gaze is fixed. He might be an intellectual traveler or an athlete. The main thing is his sights are future oriented, toward goals on the distant horizon. This perspective keeps him always restless to learn more, do more, experience more. If you’ve got a similar stamina, you may be able to keep up. If you’re just as inspired, then you’re likely the one to share his actively pursued dreams.
The Sagittarius man loves to laugh, and you’ll get extra points for expanding his mind through humor. If you’re prone to negativity or shame spirals, this could be a deal breaker. He’ll appreciate you when you add to his spark. And he’ll vanish if you try to bring him down, or get him to see how tragic life is.
That’s why it’s best to keep first dates light. You win points by being philosophical about your life challenges. If the chemistry isn’t there, it’s no use trying to hang in there until something ignites. With Sagittarius guys, the physical attraction is just as important as having a dynamic rapport. If you hit a groove together on both scores, it could be the start of a beautiful friendship.
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Bright eyes. 1,000-watt smile. That’s the Sagittarius woman! She’s friendly to everyone, and has a social ease that makes for light first encounters. She’s alert and always looking to make new friends, with Sagittarius being a sign that seeks to learn from everyone he or she meets.
Often the Archer moves in and out of hobby or interest groups, happy to stay socially unattached. A stellar way to attract Sagittarius is to be a stimulating conversationalist. She’s impressed by breadth of knowledge, and someone with a curiosity about the world. Tell her your passions! Make her laugh!
The Sadge woman is blunt, which can be freeing, since truth telling is liberating. Let this inspire you to say what’s on your mind, and in your heart. She might not agree with you, but she’ll respect your candor, since her nature is to be open with her opinions.
It’s said that there are two kinds of Sagittarians — the super athlete, and the intellectual-artist type. Impress your Archer by knowing which arena she moves in, and being ready to hit the ground running (maybe literally!). She is an explorer of worlds, and/or an athlete always competing against her own personal best. High energy Sagittarians like to be physical and keep moving, whether it’s a bike ride, or learning something new.
Be her companion in adventure, and the love will grow. She’s a friend to many, so you’ll have to curb your jealousy, or the need to be the Sun to her Moon. She’s her own sunny bright light, and doesn’t thrive in captivity. Let her be free and grow, because this suits her nature.
There’s an innocence about the Sagittarius woman that helps her keep believing in a bright future. Win her heart by supporting her when she takes risks. And she’s likely to take doozie risks out of sheer faith. Cheer her on when she succeeds, and be there when she meets harsh realities.
The Sagittarius woman is one of the more sexually uninhibited signs, but all fires need that initial spark. She’s a physical being, and often has energy to spare. Some Sagittarians are polyamorous, as in loving more than one at a time. The emotionally light approach, the passion, and the physical resources, all make for a strong libido that is happy to spread the love around.
As always, look at the totality of the person, and their astrological make-up, before jumping to conclusions about Sagittarius woman. Meeting her with an open mind and heart is a good start.
Date Ideas: Outdoor music or art; bike trip or extended road trip; Interactive museum; Nature walk; Dining at an exotic restaurant; Dancing Tango or Salsa; Antique Book Fair or Flea Market; Running and Photographing Date (as seen in Jim Carrey’s Yes Man); kayaking or canoe trip; Film or Theatre Festival.
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So you’ve met a Leo man… Get ready for an affair to remember.
Most men are visually-oriented, and Leo’s doubly so. That’s why it pays to take time to do up your hair and wear your most flattering outfit. Go ahead and bring out the glamour reserved for special nights, even if you’re going to the neighborhood Chinese place. The overall effect is key, and how confident you are with your own “presentation.” He’s enamored with a look, as the natural expression of who you are. So it’s all about exaggerating the unique way you shine, and being confident about who you are.
Leo men are show-oriented, that’s just all there is to it. He’s drawn to those that make him look good. This can be a fun social game, as the pair of you hit the town. He wants to show you off, and bask in the glory of having “caught” you. In the beginning, you might feel like royalty next to the “King,” showered with goodies and fun times. He’s hot headed and all-man, who is energizing to be around. He’s romantic, passionate, warm-hearted, and it could be the time of your life… while it lasts.
But Leo men are known to be eternal bachelors always on the hunt. Just ask Jerry Hall, whose Leo man Mick Jagger “never grew up,” even though she hoped he would. She’s a Cancer (July 2nd) who dazzled him as a total Texas original, a whole lotta woman, but in the end, that lion couldn’t be tamed. Leo men attract with their swagger and masculine bravado, their steamy hungry eyes. There’s a Leo quality of wanting to be the King of the pride, sought by many, and answerable to no one. It’s that sense of entitlement that’s both intoxicating and leads to lots of heartache.
That’s not to say a lion can’t be loyal. He’s got a true heart, when the timing is right (he’s matured) and your life together is epic and filled with dramatic love. A Leo wants life to be filled with celebrations and adventures. So if you’re full of joie de vivre, he’ll respond to that. Creating stand-out memories together will help form a strong bond. Another key is exploring different sides to who you are, and sharing that with him. When you take risks, he’ll champion your efforts. He appears confident, but needs lots of praise and attention. If you genuinely believe in him and respect him, it’ll show. You’ll have no problem pumping him up when he needs it.
If you’ve met a Leo, keep in mind that all the other planets have their say in his nature. For example, your Leo man might have an earth sign Moon (Capricorn, Taurus or Virgo), making him crave shared stability in his emotional life. Look also to Venus and Mars for clues on his complex nature. And above all, never let “what you’ve heard” about Leos keep you from taking a chance, and getting to know who he really is. Astrology gives us the outline of possibilities, but only in real life do we experience the energies play out.
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The Leo woman has a regal air, and a good-natured bigness to her personality. The light she shines draws men and women like bees to honey. Leo is Sun-ruled, and her warmth at times seems supernatural, like she has her own secret light source. This gives her power to create and shine powerfully, asserting her presence in the world.
She’s the life of any party, wherever she goes, turning the most ho-hum places (like a bank queue) into a moment of levity. She is naturally vivacious, and generally fun to be with. Her nature is very giving, and she gives to herself most of all.
Leo women love to be admired for their special uniqueness. Win her by loving what’s unique about her style, her story, the way she lives. Show up on time, or face a reckoning. Respect is big with her, and being overlooked, underestimated, or taken for granted is not soon forgotten.
I’m not saying Leo is a gold-digger, but she loves fine things. If you’re able to lavish her with gold or anything fine, she takes notice. If you enjoy acquiring luxuries, this is something you’ll share. Her tastes are known for being extravagant, so choose that finer wine or chocolate, and make reservations at that elegant, upscale restaurant.
She is image-conscious, so any time spent on your own appearance is a plus. She wants to be proud to walk around with you. If you go beyond the prevailing casual look, this wins more points. Having your own unique style, like with a signature hat, goes far.
The Lioness especially loves visits to the spa and salon, or any gifts that pay homage to her mane (like vintage or well-made hair clips). A flower for her hair, in lieu of a corsage, is not too over-the-top. Take notice of her vanity table, for ideas for future presents.
Leo woman is pure fun. See if a game of Twister, or a scavenger hunt doesn’t bring out that playful kid. A special event to stir the imagination, like Cirque du Soleil, or walking a street fair with music, artists, pinwheels. Be sure to memorialize time together with a picture, portrait or song, that casts the memory, and her, in a magical light. Create an atmosphere of adventure in your relationship, where there’s always something to look forward to!
Leo woman is not all fun and games. She’s also one of the more ambitious of the Zodiac signs. Pay attention to her dreams for herself, and find ways to bolster her confidence toward achieving them. Every Lioness wants to put her personal stamp on her work. Help her refine her approach, and offer practical strategies for making it happen.
Find ways to remind Leo woman of that powerful spark that drives her. Many Leo women have no problem asserting themselves and being the one that dictates what goes on. But if something is eclipsing her sunny nature, you win her love by reminding her of that light within.
(Source: astrology.about.com)
He’s ruled by the red planet (Mars), so you know this guy is hot. But he’s also cold. He’s a man of extremes, whose loyalty is to himself first, and his epic journey. On that note, the Aries man is so absorbed in the moment that he may not notice you at first. He’s got his eyes on the next prize. This makes it easier to observe him from afar, and develop a huge crush.
When his gaze finally does beam on you, don’t wilt and play shy or too smitten. He doesn’t want a done deal. That’s an instant turn-off to such a forceful and confident man. He’s looking for tension in romance, the thrill of the hunt, with the goodies kept at a tantalizing distance until the right moment. In old-school lingo, it’s called playing hard to get.
In the bedroom, it takes a whole lotta someone to keep this man satisfied. He’ll look at you with lusty desire, and make you feel like the hottest thing around. He’s impulsive in love, and comes on strong. He finds you ravishing, but don’t let him eat you up in one sitting. Saying “No” sometimes and doing your own thing makes you fresh for your next encounter. And it does the trick to build his anticipation, and keep him in pursuit.
The Aries man is full steam ahead, and gains momentum as the night goes on. You gotta have energy to spare to keep up. It’s tempting to go along for the ride, since his energy has an animating effect. But it’s wise to retain your own sense of rhythm in the relationship, what feels balanced for you. He’s thrilling, but self-centered, and you should let that rub off on you, in a healthy way. He’ll respect you for it, and come back for more.
The Aries man is impulsive, and this leads to a never ending series of infatuations. But winning his heart is another story, at times with a damned if you do, damned if you don’t plot line. He’s not into sharing his feelings, and will recoil at too much analyzing of the relationship. The Aries man enjoys games and feats, like winning a giant bear for you at the fair, or showing off by popping a wheelie. “Look what I can do!” is his appeal. The best response is awe, with some sincere adulation thrown in. But don’t lay it on too thick, ‘cause he’ll grow angry if he feels “played.”
And that’s the tricky part, dealing with that super-sized ego. He doesn’t want a pushover, but does need a fair amount of ego stroking. He’s bright, and will respond to direct, daring communications. When he struts and swaggers around the room, let him know he’s met his feisty, haughty, quick-witted match. Facing fears and moving toward your own dreams will impress him the most. As will standing up to him when he’s an arrogant arse. A relationship that is fresh and full of new revelations keeps him by your side. In the end, the best path is to be your most dynamic self, and let the chips fall where they may.
(Source: astrology.about.com)
The Aries woman is confident and loves the sexual tension of early romance. It’s fair to say newness thrills her, and she hits the ground running in love. First dates go long into the night, with her total engagement in the moment. She is energized when pushing at her own limits. Great dates are activities of trying something new - from paddle boating to sailing or tango.
You get far when you show what you’re passionate about. She admires those who do for themselves. So the self-made man (or woman) is very appealing. Pique her interest with tales from your best moments, when you took a risk, or fought and won.
Let’s be honest — the Aries woman has a low tolerance for insecurity. A ‘fake it ‘til you make it’ strategy won’t work, because her nature is to provoke, and even play on your weaknesses. For some, it feels like teasing, but to others, it’s enough to go on the defense.
If you’re falling for an Aries woman, be prepared to be challenged. This is her nature, and if you can’t take the heat, it’s best to leave the kitchen early. If you’re up for it, a love affair with an Aries woman will be full of adventures, vigorous “fights,” fierce love, excitement, and the feeling that it’s always new.
It’s not a good idea to bond with the Aries woman by revealing your insecurities. Some women like to ‘mother’ their partners, but the Aries woman wants a hero. Many Aries women like to do things typically considered masculine, like competitive sports events. She’s often one that can hang with the guys.
But like every sign, she defies stereotype, and there are surely as many artist-Aries types as there are the ones that go for martial arts or kickboxing. Whatever she’s into, she wants to be the best at it. The right one will admire her gutsy way, and encourage her to shine big.
The Aries woman is quick to anger, but quick to let it go, too. She’s generous with those she loves, and thrives on inspiration. If she’s bored, it’ll show, and that’s a slippery slope to an abrupt end.
The Aries nature is to be very animated and self-directed. She wants to know she can stand on her own two feet. She responds to encouragement, but isn’t big on sentimental, emotion-laden attention. She’s quick and passionate, and will come alive if you are too.
If you’re someone with your own big dreams, and the will to make them happen, that’ll pique her interest. If she suspects you want to control, smother or any other way put out her fire, she’ll want out. A good match is someone who is confident, and isn’t freaked out by a woman wholly self-centered (centered within herself).
(Source: astrology.about.com)
